What does the terminology 24/7 actually mean

 

24/7 in its purest form means 24 hours a day 7 days a week 365 days a year.

When you break that concept down to how to manage and live within such a confining structure you will begin to see how close your own relationship can fulfill this desire for both taking control and giving up control.

 

What are the realities of living and loving within a 24/7 household

 

Let’s break it down a little more beginning with the 24 hours in a day beginning at the end of a regular day at home referring to the dominant as D and the submissive as s.

This concept will discuss the relationship as though neither party had to leave the home for work nor children or others are living in the home. This is of course the ideal situation for 24/7.

The D might be so inclined as to chain the s to the bed each night after the nightly routine of tooth brushing and bathroom necessities, with clear instructions to wake the D if an emergency bathroom break is needed or any issue occurs that would warrant a release from the chain.

The s would be taught that only REAL needs would warrant an awakening of the D or there would be consequences.

When leaving the presence of the D the s might be taught to do so in a respectful manner which would entail such rituals as moving away quietly with head down and hands behind the back in a slow manner and to return to the bed in the same manner while waiting patiently to be re-chained before slipping back into the bed or to the floor at the D’s discretion.

The D may also enjoy leashing the s and holding onto the leash throughout the night (as I do) to feel the constant ownership of the property.

Upon awakening many variations of rituals might occur depending upon initial negotiations that resulted in a 24/7 agreement. A male D may prefer to be awakened by a blow job before having his coffee and breakfast prepared while a female D might insist upon being licked to orgasm before her morning coffee.

There are as many variations of these rituals as there are those who enjoy beginning the day in a sexual manner.

Here is where you might get creative and really put some thought into “pleasure, obedience
devotion and service.

If the chain is long enough there is no need to remove it until the D is satisfied. There is seldom any need to allow the s sexual gratification at this time as coffee or tea will be desired to begin the day. Once the s has been released from the restraint they would leave the presence of the D in the required and respectful manner previously described.

The s will need to be taught the exacting standards expected for all beverage services and the morning ritual is often one of the most satisfying of the day.

Personally I prefer the s to serve my coffee from the knees after first tasting the beverage to ascertain it is hot enough sweet enough and creamed perfectly, the kissing the rim of my cup before presenting it for my approval. I have no compunctions in declining the coffee if it is not to my standards and going through this process until I have run out of patience.

The s may or may not be permitted to sit at the feet of the D to discuss the needs and requirements of the day and any tasks that must be successfully fulfilled. Again this is where you bring your own unique needs and desires into play.

 

...you write your own script for the rest of the day. If you wish feedback send your version to me.

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Some of the questions I cover in class

1. Is 24/7 possible within a polyamorous family

2. Why would anyone want to live in such a structured relationship

3. Are some fantasies best left as a fantasy rather than a reality

4. Why is TPE (total power exchange) essential for success

5. Why labels matter when searching for a 24/7 lovestyle

6. Can 24/7 work when there is conflict in obedience

7. When a long or short term 24/7 relationship ends who keeps the collar

8. What would be justification for terminating a 24/7 relationship

9. What should you be looking for if you wish to live as dominant and submissive 24/7