Welcome to my world potential trainees

I train submissives because I know that many will never get the opportunity to see if submission is a fantasy or a true need that they should spend years pursuing.

Emotional involvements are impossible to control and so I make a point of being brutally honest about how difficult it is to become one of mine.

I train for my own joy as well as the development of those I believe deserve the opportunity to bend their knee for a dominant Woman who understands the courage it takes to submit.

I expect as much respect as I give and I am not the kind of Woman that needs her ass kissed or a dozen hearts thrown at my feet making it impossible for me to step forward on my own path.

I am honored when I have gained the affection of those I care for and nurture in their growth because I know that I have earned that honor.

But I am not honored by words of love from submissives who are still learning the very basics of my ways. Love is a trap when it is given to quickly.

So trainees...do not come at me with the love word...do not tell me that your world is nothing if I am not in it...I have been kind enough to give you your dream do not hand me back obligation.

If you have the good fortune of becoming one of the select few that I accept for training you will become familiar with many implements of torment that I have at My disposal.

Each is chosen for a certain lesson to be learned or a discipline required. Though I hold my equipment in high regard, I know as you soon will, that the most lethal weapon in My arsenal is My mind.

Both domination and submission begin in the mind. If the eyes are not strong enough to speak without words and the hand is not strong enough to speak without pain there will not be a cuff or a rope that can hold a submissive in one spot for long. If the voice can't control without yelling, domination is a pale caricature of the real thing. I use my voice my hands and my eyes to begin your journey into safety and contentment. Not a length of chain nor a leather strap can take you deeper than my mind can.

All that having been said.....if you get through the first introduction and I decide you are worthy of more training you can be certain that you will taste the bite of most of the toys that I enjoy. When and what will be entirely at my discretion.

I will never take you past your limits but I will push you to the very edge. I respect safe words and encourage you to use them in pride if the need arises. There is no shame in using either yellow or red, there is shame in not having the courage to say enough.

Your lessons will include the art of nail painting as I torment you with the threat of butt plugs. I will show you the correct way to bathe a Mistress when you are blindfolded from the allure of her nakedness. You will be expected to cook meals to my high expectation and will be taught the ritual of serving my drinks. I may or may not choose to feminize you but one thing you can be certain of is that I train the sub I see in you. I do not train carbon copy reproductions of others.

Each male or female that has the pleasure of sitting at my feet is seen by me as an individual with unique qualities of their own. Why would I waste my time taking them all in the same direction. That would be ludicrous to me.

So if you had seen my slave of ten years performing for my amusement or serving me as he had been taught....do not think that I will expect you to parrot his actions. He was as I created him to be. You will be my newest creation if it is my wish to take you to heaven and hell.

Every day my messenger and yahoo are filled with new contacts calling themselves slaves. Of course they have never even submitted and are obsessed with my feet. Foot fetish has nothing to do with submission. It is a fetish!  I am not a fetish Domme! I have no interest in fetishes brought to me by a wanna be slave...I get bored. 

I also am not impressed by anyone calling themselves by the very respectable title of slave.  Slave is an earned title. Very few submissives, even the very best submissives, will ever or should try to attain slavery.There isn't a chance in hell that man or woman will be given the opportunity to be trained by Me...ever.

Training can be a bad thing when it is not seen for what it is.

A trainer is not looking for love nor should she encourage it. A trainee almost always falls under the spell of the dominant training them and will often begin professing undying love. When that trainee begins to make statements that indicate they will be devastated if they are not accepted as that Mistress's submissive at the end of training, they are in effect, unintentionally stopping their own advancement.

The dominant is being put into a place of obligation and any natural flow of emotions that may have occurred are halted. Simply stating that they know you do not make up your mind in less than four months does not show understanding for that reality.

It is my advise that you take each word seriously that I write. I never waste the pen on half truths or bullshit.